I am a big bodied professional black woman who because of chronic illness(multiple sclerosis) has difficulty walking and getting around. Dispute my age,I am not very experienced with men as an adult. I had my only child at age 13, but did not let that fact limit my setting and achieving many of my life goals. Currently, I am a lonely person, but can be personable when with others. I know I am approaching a life change, including possible retirement, and I am looking for someone to share some time and experiences as I approach and enter that phase and stage of life. I do enjoy music,(especially jazz), all sports (but especially baseball) and quiet activities. I like to travel especially by car. I try to maintain currency in events and enjoy good conversation. I like to gamble, but know my limits. I do not expect my partner or companion to be economically responsible for events and I may be generous to a fault in that regard (if I and another want to do something, I do not let costs stop us if I can met those costs). I am ready to be daring in male-female relationship, but I need someone who can deal with my listed "short comings" and willing to accommodate my physical limitations. In male-female relations I am submissive but I do not want anyone who will be physically brutal or hurtful. I am ready to meet the challenges that a relationship, especially a sexual one, bring. I am a person willing to "go with the flow" and be flexible, with a desire and need in my life for companionship and sexual closeness. I try not to take myself too seriously. And, I believe in God and the goodness in people. Finally, I am hopeful that I can meet someone who meets my needs and is willing to take a chance on me.