Some say that "size matters". Well I suppose to some extent it does but what's more important is knowing how to use what you have. I consider myself more or less average in size and I have learned a few things about women. The most important being that they are all unique. There is no mysterious "works every time" technique for giving them pleasure. I have learned to pay attention to my partner and pick up subtle variations in body language which gives me an indication how much she likes how I'm stimulating her. If you're concerned about age consider this, how many guys in their 20's know their way around a womans body (and I'm not talking about the names of all the parts). Being in the swinging lifestyle for 11 years has given me the experience, confidence and understanding to make any situation a positive experience. I'm a risk taker when approprate, an advisor when requested, the voice of reason when necessary and when all else fails, a US Marine because failure is not an option. I tend to take things to the extreem in most everything I do, without stepping on the toes or feelings of others. This is only a tiny glimpse of what I'm all about but it's a place to start. Now ask yourself, can you afford to walk away from what could be the most incredible experience of your life?