I am a man with an open mind and a willingness to please my partner as they please me. I believe in being a gentleman and a part of being gentleman is being discreet and responsive to your needs. I did not check any of the little boxes here because that would not really tell you who I am and what I am looking for. I can be adventurous and step outside my comfort zone while maintaining a perspective of what we're here for. If you are reading this you must be searching for satisfaction that you are not receiving at home. That is what I am looking for that satisfaction that I am not receiving at home. I am not looking to change my marriage situation, just enhances it by fulfilling my needs that I am not receiving at home. I have found in the past that one night stands usually are never very good. To be a good lover you need to know something about your lover�s desires and needs. Don't get me wrong I have met up with women in the past that were free spirits and uninhibited and who were not afraid to let me know what they were looking for as I communicated what my needs were. So we could satisfy each other's needs. I'm more interested in a long-term affair than just meeting once and I never seeing each other again. I feel it takes more than just physical attraction to be turned on, and to turn someone else on intellectually and physically. The willingness to take the time and asked those questions of one another to find out what our fantasies and desires our and how we can fulfill them for each other. That is what it takes to put the spark, fire and fury in your lover�s eye. We should always part wanting more from one another and looking forward to the next encounter.