I'm a pretty nice guy and I don't want to do anything that you're not willing to do - won't even be pushy about it. I'm gentle, but rough when I need to be. I'm a giver - but I also like to be pleased. I can go on for a long time, but I always make sure the girl I'm pleasing gets off first and finishes at least once before I finish. I'm a stable guy with my own career, car, etc. So, spending money and having a good time is not a problem.