I'm recently single and looking to have some fun, especially 1 on 1, and if it gets long-term and comfortable that's cool too---i'm not a swinger. i often don't really like people, especially in groups, where i myself tend to fade into the background. (i don't mean group sex here.) i'm quite frankly awkward when i meet someone i like or if potential sex is at stake---not easy to talk to, and i don't at all like the idea of trolling for idiots and such in bars. the flip side is that i am a bit intense when i am comfortable being myself. So here i am. you're smart enough to figure out---or find out---the rest yourself. at any rate i love to eat pussy and i don't mind direction. no part of my body is off limits and i love getting a woman off or seeing her get off on me. intelligence, directness, and honesty are turnons, and sentimentality, intellectual incuriosity, and manipulations are NOT. and let me say this now if you are looking for a man "who knows how to treat a lady"---GET OFF MY PROFILE.