I feel that sex between humans is significantly unlike the physical act that occurs abruptly between two animals in nature. In contrast, it is human interaction and communication on a very deep and profound level, unlike anything else. This interactive event, that shares nothing else in common with it, should never, ever be rushed ------- except maybe for a "quickie" once in awhile!" You probably agree with me that sex between two close friends can simply be "mind-blowing!" And put simply, in no other way can humans pleasure each other in a more incredible way that produces such unbelievable feelings of rapture, ecstasy, acute satisfaction, unbelievable joy, and happiness. I absolutely love to be spontaneous when in the company of my partner and lover. Traits that describe me include: passionate, gentle but still aggressive when appropriate, physically able, unhesitatingly communicative (anyone for talking dirty?), and affectionate. During that time when we are "escaping" from the concerns of the world, NOTHING is more important to me than your unbridled and intense pleasure! Through strategic foreplay and "accessories" (fingers, mouths, tongues, etc.) in all the "right places," you go through the stages of sexual arousal and after a period of buildup to that wonderful moment, eventual release. And then you and I go through the process several more times because I like to see you pleasured and you are genuinely worth it! I believe that when my focus is on providing for you and making you the absolute center of my attention, I never have to worry about taking care of myself also. My pleasure and release occur naturally as a result of making sure that YOU receive ALL of the attention. Oh, and I might have one thing to add here. I have what I think is an acceptable sense of humor and occasionally I make use of it during "convenient times." Are there moments when "bedroom activities" take place and an appropriate sense of humor would be beneficial? I think so!