I can't offer too much except that I am open minded and willing to be told what to do., I am not much experienced, only been with 3 women (how many guys do you know that can say that) I don't have much to work with though I have been told i work well with what I got....as for what I got I am working with 6inches long and about 2and 3quarters wide , I don't think it much but you can say i am wrong if you think so, still can't respond to messages but I am working to change that, I hope some will bare with me