i'm kinda of a shy guy but i'm realy in to down to earth girls when we are out but in bed at less for the start you would have to be a bit on the bossy side don't get me wrong i do my own thing and to the most part i don't do well been told what to do but in bed well thats your domain i'm like most guys there i can get what i want an minits so its more about what you want altho i am big on just wrapping my arms aroung and just holding altho it rearly seems to just stop at that even tho thats all i was looking for