I like porn, both watching and creating, mutual masturbation, light bondage, and I love women who are aroused by being objectified. Do you like to be told what to do? Do you feel anticipation when a man treats you like a play toy? Well, this kind of relationship requires - more than anything else - trust. Trust untested remains uncertain. It becomes certain when we realize it was always there. This takes time. It cannot be rushed. If you don't know what you want, or if you vacillate between kink and romance, you're not my girl. If, on the other hand, you're genuinely aroused by being viewed, treated and used by someone who enjoys pushing these buttons, then we should explore the possibilities. Communication is everything. Tell me what you want and what you like. Don't make me guess. In other words: you're a whore. Act like one.