My wife told me she wanted me to have sex with other women. She said it would turn her on for me to do so. She doesn't want to be involved, she just wants me to tell her about it afterwards. I love my wife and I would never cheat on her, but she told me to. So is it really cheating? Just to be fair, I'm a very hairy guy. Some people have been known to call me a bear. If that bothers you, then move on. If not, then feel free to drop me a line anytime.