I am 40 years old and single. I don't take life too seriously. I feel that we're here for a very short time and we shouldn't waste it worrying about stupid B.S. that in the long run doesn't mean a damn thing. I also have an interesting hobby which I will tell you more about when we meet. Trust me, you'll find it fascinating and it may lead to a fair amount of notoriety someday. I just returned from Puerto Rico where I was doing research in regards to my hobby. I am a leader and don't mind making tough decisions. I am a good looking guy(I have never had a problem meeting women), am in good shape although I am currently trying to lose about 10 pounds. I try to work out 4 or 5 times a week. Even though I have signed up on this site I do treat women with respect and anyone I hook up with will not be treated any different. The main reason I'm single at 40 is I can't seem to find a woman who doesn't want to run my life. I don't want to run there lives and I expect the same in return. It's amazing how difficult that is to find nowadays.