IIm patient and good natured (I can get nasty if needed in bed but its not me} I like to really know someone b4 we get ahead of ourselves unless its something spontaneous w an understanding going in.. I stay in optimal shape whjxh accents the fact that Im blessed in defying my age. Im a mag xl guy (they seem tight to me) yet I know better than to simply rely on that. I love 4play and will stay w it all night if allowed. I am challenged to not become attached though. I feel obligated afterwards in every sense to be there if needed for whatever. Its how it should be and it makes me feel better. I will get lost if that wd be preferred once I speak my mind on the matter (if this iis your pattern pl move on) Iv very unselfish in bed and wd prefer being thought of as the best of lovers to my own satisfaction