i am a smart out going guy that has been in the lifestyle for a number of years and i do like meeting new people all the time. wife does know about me and what i do. she does play too as well but she choses to find her own adventures and friends to play with. so im on this site to do the same and maybe we can have some fun from time to time. it does not have to be just sex all the time because i like going out to have fun too. sex is just something extra if we choose it. i am also d/d free and i definatly hope that your at least desiese free. i don't mind that ya'll 420 that is totally something i just don't do but, im not going to stop ya'll either.